Sustaining Relationship (The Article)
Sustainable Relationship
We all know that Love is an expenditure of the motivation you get from your partner but nowadays people fall in love without knowing how to sustain their relationship for long, that is why there are lot of broken marriages, relationship and even friendship falling in love is not bad but staying in love is what matter seriously many people don't know why they are in relationship they just think that they are mature enough or their friends are doing it so they too want to be involved without knowing the purpose for doing it. some even think relationship is for fun that is why over 40 percent of new marriages end in divorce. Seriously, staying in marriage is not always easy. Although love is the gateway of any happy relationship,but love is often not enough to sustain a good relationship. Every marriage has its own fault but both partners have to be determined to work through any challanges and differences that comes their way. Good relationships are always built strongly on mutual respect. Which always depends on having the right communication. Going into a relationship is good but it's expected that your significant other is change as a sign that you need to resolve some issues before making things permanent i.e you have to Keep your attention on the admirable and honorable traits in your partner not on the things that doesn’t matter. You have to Show respect to your partner and also means refusing to be part of the “man-bashing or woman-bashing” others do. Staying close to your partner isn’t something that just happens. You need to work at nurturing that closeness every day. One of the best ways to do this is to constantly listen to your partner and learn to tolerate them. It’s said that many people don’t listen to understand but simply wait for their turn to speak. Becoming a good listener is a skill that need attention and practice. Always listening demonstrates to your partner that you are responsive and engaged, no matter the topic, thereby consistently strength their importance as well as the importance of the relationship.
Written By (Aigbokhai Oisagie isaac)